Something I found interesting in chapter three of Chauncy
was the part with in the bachelor subculture section where it talks about
manliness and being a man something that was acted out and earned. With all the
focus on performance within wrestling matches and dominating women, it is
commented that “they regarded their manliness as a king of ongoing
performance.” I think this ties in really nicely with how a man could have sex
with another man and, as long as he was the one penetrating, he was still seen
as straight and sexually normal. It is the choice to take on that “womanly”
part of sex that made a man homosexual and lesser in their eyes.
The fact that these “fairies” were able to be tolerated so
much because they “confirm[ed] rather than question[ed]” a man’s manliness
seems utterly outrageous in today’s standards. However, we do not draw a
sexuality line between who is penetrating who so much when it comes to two
males having sex. We simply see that as a homosexual act all around, and we
seem to be finally coming around to the idea that both parties in that sexual
act can be considered male despite their sexuality. This was clearly not the
case with in turn-of-the-century America. Someone was always needed to be seen
as subordinate because God forbid sex be between two equals.
I also thought it was interesting that when a middle-class
man’s homosexuality was questioned even though they were performing the
penetration, they did not seem immediately to stop but to defend until the
stigma became too great. It was also interesting that the “fairies” tended to
go after working-class men over the middle-class men because they were “more
responsive to [ ] advances than ‘normal’ middle-class men would have been,” but
then it is the middle-class men, who were still having sexual encounters with “fairies,”
have their sexuality questioned more than working-class men. This seems to have
been though because the working-class men were constantly working and proving
their manliness, where middle-class men would have less labor intensive jobs.
However, the difference is still really interesting.
No comments:
Post a Comment